One rule for all relationships, lovers, friends or family — don’t skimp on the love.

I have a problem with this. I’m totally and utterly imperfect. When I’m hurt, I shut down, get cold, and want nothing to do with the world.

I’ve been trying to get better at spreading the love even when I’m not necessarily feeling it. But the thing is that love is so subjective. It can be hard to know what…